we need
to appreciate people’s efforts. when was
the last time you thanked your parents just for being your parents. why the big deal about this? because it’s so important GOD put it in the
ten commandments. HE said, “honor your father and mother.” HE’s talking about appreciation.
this
one little principle can revolutionize your relationships. mark twain once said, “i can go two good
weeks on one compliment.” we just don’t
appreciate each other enough. there’s
nothing more important than learning to appreciate the people around you. they’re not perfect but they need and deserve
appreciation. we need to appreciate
their loyalty, their efforts, their differences.
so how
do you do it? well, there’s a right way
and there’s a wrong way. the scripture gives us some good hints on how to show
appreciation.
first of
all, it needs to be real.
romans
12.9 (tlb), don’t just pretend that you love others; really love them! two important words here “pretend” and “really”. don’t just pretend
that you love other people, really love them.
when you appreciate other people it needs to not be flattery, not
syrupy. it needs to be genuine, sincere,
heartfelt, no ulterior motive. you’re
not trying to get something from them.
you’re not trying to butter them up.
somebody
said one time that usually when somebody pats you on the back he wants you to
cough up something. paul says, don”t
have any ulterior motives, don’t just
pretend that you love others, really love them. it needs to be real.
just a
thought from the front porch…
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