One
test of maturity is how you handle disagreeable people who like to quarrel with
you.
An
argumentative spirit indicates an ego problem.
If you like to quarrel, if you like to get into arguments, you’ve got an
ego problem.
JESUS
says that a person who is meek is happy because he is tender without
surrender. Meekness is learning to
disagree agreeably. Meekness is being
able to walk hand in hand without seeing eye to eye.
In a
marriage, when two people agree on everything, one of them isn’t
necessary. You eat with a knife and a
fork, not two knives. We need
variety.
When
people disagree with you, you can be passive, a doormat – “Go ahead, have your
way.” – or you can fight them tooth and nail, blow up, get angry, fight back,
be sarcastic. Or you can respond in
love – a gentle answer.
2
Timothy 2.24-25 (NIV) says meekness is a qualification for spiritual
leadership, “The LORD’s servant must not quarrel ... those who oppose him he
must gently instruct, in hope that GOD will give them repentance...”
The
Bible says that I am not to argue with people.
I am not to get in a quarrel. I
am to gently instruct and hope that GOD will give them a change of heart.
At our
church in Las Vegas, we said, “In the essentials we have unity; in the nonessentials
we have liberty; in all things we have charity.” We allowed for diversity in
the body of CHRIST. Different gifts.
Different strokes for different folks.
We need
to learn to be understanding, not demanding with people who serve us. And we need to learn to be gentle, not
judgmental with people who let us down.
We let people down. Happy are those who treat others the way GOD treats
them. And we need to be tender without
surrender when somebody disagrees with us.
Just a
thought from the front porch…
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