One of the biggest areas of conflict in marriage is
over the physical relationship.
I Corinthians 7:5 (Ph), "Do not cheat each
other of normal sexual intercourse... or you will expose yourselves to the
obvious temptation of Satan."
Sex is a spiritual responsibility in a marriage and
it's a very exclusive relationship. When
you got married, hopefully, you made a commitment that said, "I will limit
my physical, sexual expression just to you and no one else will be
involved." We have made a
commitment in our marriage that if my mate is going to have a great lover it's
going to be me. We have tried to decide
that we would meet each other's needs in such a way that we would be absolute
fools to be interested in anybody else.
A pastor said one time that it was his goal to keep
his lawn so green that it made other's look brown in comparison. That's the goal that we have for ourselves.
There was a scientific survey that was to determine
what days most husbands desire love making.
They discovered that it was the days that begin with the letters "T": Tuesday, Thursday, Today, Tomorrow,
Tatursday, and Tunday.
I heard of a three years survey done by a
sexologist. He did a study of 2000
married men between the ages of 25 and 55 and they found that there were four
things these men would rather do than make love to their wife:
1. Watch
sports on TV
2. Walk the
dog
3. Have a
barbecue and beer with friends
4. To play a
round of golf.
That truly was a study. It made me start to think, "What was the
problem?" Sex does cause a lot of
conflict in marriage and I think a lot of people just kind of give up.
Another reason, I think is in our culture we're just
too busy and it's easy to lose interest.
But the point of it is this: it
shows that we've got to maintain our marriages.
Marriages typically need a lot of work.
Just a thought from the front porch…
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