Now in preventing an affair after you have maintained
proper relationships then you minimize the opportunity.
If you don't want to get stung, stay away from the
bees. There are some things I want to
suggest here:
1) Recognize the kind of situations that stimulate
or tempt you.
I Corinthians 10:12 (LB) "So be careful! If you are thinking, ‘Oh, I would never
behave like that’ – let this be a warning to you. For you too may fall into sin."
I realize that there are a good number of you who
are being polite and thinking "It won't happen to me. Nothing I have to worry about. We've been
married 45 years and it ain't going to happen." Some of you are saying, "Have you looked
at my wife/husband recently? It's never
going to happen."
But given the right circumstances anybody can commit
any sin.
You may be thinking "I would never do
that" but Scripture says, you're just setting yourself up for a fall. It's like taking a big red flag at Satan and
saying "Come get me." Given
the right circumstances, you can do anything.
Because of that you need to set up some guards around your life, some
protections.
Those of you who travel a lot face this danger all
the time. You're on the road, in a hotel
room in a strange city. Who's to know
what you do with whom? There's nobody to
report on you, nobody to tell tales.
Who's going to know? The
temptation is constantly there. As they
said where I used to live, “What’s done in Vegas stays in Vegas.”
(1) Don't travel alone if possible. Take a companion.
(2) Put a picture of your family in the hotel room.
(3) Have the cable channels blocked in the hotel
room. Not because you might give in and
watch a movie you really don't want to watch but it makes a statement to the
front desk.
(4) Call your family every night, talk to them,
reestablishes that link between the family.
Just a thought from the front porch…
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