Showing posts with label sacrifice. Show all posts
Showing posts with label sacrifice. Show all posts

Tuesday, August 7, 2012

decisions that help us make good decisions…

now there are some decisions that all of us can make that in turn will help us make every other decision in our life. they are decisions that help us make good decisions.

one of them is, i can decide to live life GOD’s way.  that’s a decision we can make.  romans 12.1 (esv) says, present your bodies as a living sacrifice to GOD.

in our modern world the idea of a sacrifices is a foreign concept.  we’re not all that familiar with sacrifice.  but in ancient times people would take animals, they’d put them on stone slabs, usually cut their throat or in some way have all the blood drain out and offer that dead animal as an offering to GOD.  but in this verse the bible says, GOD doesn’t want us to be dead on an altar.  HE wants us to be alive.  HE wants us to be a living offering to HIM, a living sacrifice.  it’s really the essence of giving the full yes to GOD.  “GOD, i’ll give you my whole life!”

if i could use a driving analogy, it would be the picture of you getting out from behind the wheel of the car of your life and getting over into the passenger seat and allowing GOD to get behind the wheel and allowing him drive.  so then, instead of you being the leader or the director or the boss of your destiny you’re looking to GOD and you’re wanting HIS ways to become your ways.  you’re submitting to HIM. 

i know this is quite a challenge for us independent types.  we have a hard time giving our whole life to GOD.  i’ve talked to enough of you to know the reasons why.  some people have said things like this, if i ever give a complete yes to GOD, if i ever say, GOD, you do what you want to with my life, some of you believe that from that moment on your life will be miserable.  you’ll have to stop having fun.  GOD will dress you weird.  you’ll have to talk funny.  you’ll have to move to the remotest parts of the world. 

where do you get the idea that living for GOD is a miserable life?  that’s not what the bible says.  the first sermon that JESUS ever preached was a message on how to find happiness in difficult situations. there’s a book in the bible called philippians.  the whole point of that whole book is about how to find inner contentment and joy in a very challenging world.  JESUS said in john 10.10 “I have come that you might have life and have that life miserably.”  that’s not what HE said.  (gnt),  I have come in order that you might have life – life in all its fullness.

just a thought from the front porch…

Sunday, March 6, 2011

that’s what love is all about…

all the money in the world can’t replace your time with your wife, your husband, your kids, those you love.  whenever you give your time you’re making a sacrifice of your life because your time is your life.  but that’s what love is all about, it’s about sacrifice.  sacrifice is the essence of love. 

ephesians 5.2 (nlt), live a life filled with love following the example of CHRIST who loved you and gave HIMself as a sacrifice to take away your sins. 

if it isn’t a sacrifice, it’s not real love.  you may call it that but it’s not.  if it isn’t a sacrifice, it’s not real love.  you can give without loving but you cannot love – legitimately love – without giving.  love is the essence of sacrifice.  love means giving up – giving up my ambitions, giving up my preferences, giving up my likes, giving up my particular thing that i think is fun, giving up my energy, giving up my time for the benefit of somebody else.  that's what love is.  giving up my time and my preferences for the benefit of someone else.  it’s a sacrifice.

many of you are in time-starved relationships.  you live in the same home but you’re passing each other by day and by night like ships with a goodbye kiss here and there and your relationship is shriveling.  it’s shrinking.  it’s drying up for lack of attention. 

a lot of things can rob a relationship.  work can rob a relationship.  activity can rob a relationship.  too much church involvement or ministry can rob a relationship.  hobbies.  fun things that you like to do on your own can rob a relationship.  tv can rob a relationship.  computers can rob a relationship. 

somebody says, “how can i have more time for those i love?”  turn off the tv and unplug the computer.  i'm not saying get rid of them.  i'm just saying limit them.  the average american now watches tv and/or works or plays on the computer an average of five to six hours a day.  that’s over 30 hours a week.  that’s 1,560 hours a year.  let me put that in perspective.  one thousand five hundred sixty hours a year is the equivalent of spending 97 days straight at 16 hours a day watching tv or playing or working on the computer.  that’s bound to hurt a relationship. 

just a thought from the front porch…