accusers are always going around saying “it’s your fault.” when adam sinned he took it like a man and blamed his wife, “eve did it,” and then he blamed GOD, YOU gave me that woman.”
excusers say, “i’m a product of my environment. it’s not really my fault.”
the people that are really successful in life are neither accusers nor excusers. they are choosers. they accept responsibility for their own decisions. when they reap what they sow they take it and move ahead.
now one of the major difficulties that we have in our society is that there are a lot of children running around looking like they are adults. just because you look like an adult doesn’t mean you are one. an adult is a person who admits it when he has a problem. who isn’t always making excuses and always accusing.
just a thought from the front porch…